franklin74747

November 25, 2011 - 02:07 pm
Hi Darrec, I am surprised that you didn’t have more conversation with him. You alreadyc told him he was Hot ! You could have talked out how you felt about the situation. G0ys want to have emncounters with masculine guys. I probably would have gotten him off after making sure he could have been trusted to keep it to himself. A lot of guys want intimacy with other men...ESP masculine men...and you must be1 if you already work out. Life is full of trade offs. I would encourage him to give you another go. Frank
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darrek

September 30, 2010 - 07:46 pm
What went wrong?
I had a situation a few years back were I was working out with a guy from work. I was ’out’ as gay and he said he was straight. One time will he, a buddy of his and I were working out they were checking out girls. I mentioned that it wasn’t fair because I couldn’t check out guys. They told me that it was fine for me to check out the guys. I took a quick look around the gym and said it still wasn’t fair I was with the to hottest guys in the gym. I had intended to let them know that I knew I had limitations of what I could expect from the situation and that I thought they were hot by putting it in that context. So latter this guy invited me to his place, just the2 of us. We drank some wine and some beers, played cards and ended up watching a movie. I started to get sleepy. then he told me he wouldn’t mind a guy sucking him off. I didn’t know what to think. here I am openly gay and I had this straight guy hitting on me!?! I knew that gay guys often had straight sex partners but I always assumed that the gay guy hit on them. I wasn’t into that. Still not into that. I don’t have weak emotions easily buried. I don’t bother because I find hiding my feelings to be effeminate (my own definition of masculinity involves not being afraid of my own emotions). I was already in love with this guy. I wouldn’t do anything that I felt he would be ashamed of latter. I had resigned myself to just being friends (no intimacy) and in truth didn’t want any because I thought it would end badly. He would find a girl and I wouldn’t be able to have my friend anymore (even as a friend). So, my question to g0ys out there what went wrong? What could I have done better? Was this my fault and why? Is it to much to expect that I could have a boundary about the level of discretion expected of me?
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